{"id":135641,"date":"2026-03-06T13:12:49","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T11:12:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/?p=135641"},"modified":"2026-03-06T13:12:49","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T11:12:49","slug":"vaiko-teisiu-gynejai-pataria-kaip-padeti-vaikui-kuris-nenori-eiti-i-mokykla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/2026\/03\/06\/vaiko-teisiu-gynejai-pataria-kaip-padeti-vaikui-kuris-nenori-eiti-i-mokykla\/","title":{"rendered":"Vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117jai pataria, kaip pad\u0117ti vaikui, kuris nenori eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Vaiko \u017eod\u017eiai \u201enenoriu mokytis\u201c ar \u201enenoriu eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105\u201c suaugusiesiems gali nuskamb\u0117ti kaip rib\u0173 tikrinimas ar mai\u0161tas. Ta\u010diau vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117jai ragina neskub\u0117ti daryti i\u0161vad\u0173 \u2013 u\u017e tokio pasakymo gali slyp\u0117ti nuovargis, nerimas, paty\u010dios ar mokymosi sunkumai. <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/XLaMKnR0cWs\">Kaip pad\u0117ti vaikui geriau suprasti ir i\u0161sakyti savo jausmus<\/a>, pataria vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117ja Renata Karpovien\u0117.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Pirmiausia \u2013 ramus pokalbis<\/strong><\/p><p>\u201ePirmasis \u017eingsnis \u2013 priimti vaiko \u017eod\u017eius rimtai. Vaikui labai svarbu jausti, kad jo jausmai n\u0117ra atmetami ir kad suaugusieji yra pasireng\u0119 b\u016bti \u0161alia\u201c, \u2013 sako R. Karpovien\u0117.<\/p><p>Pokalb\u012f apie nenor\u0105 eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105 pa\u0161nekov\u0117 si\u016blo prad\u0117ti ramiai, be priekai\u0161t\u0173. Vietoje klausimo \u201ekod\u0117l nenori?\u201c gali pad\u0117ti atviresn\u0117s formuluot\u0117s: \u201eKaip jautiesi, kai galvoji apie mokykl\u0105? Kas vakar tave mokykloje nud\u017eiugino? D\u0117l ko da\u017eniausiai li\u016bdi, kai b\u016bni mokykloje?\u201c Tokie klausimai padeda vaikui kalb\u0117ti apie patirtis, o ne gintis.<\/p><p>Nenoro eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 gali b\u016bti \u012fvairi\u0173: per didelis mokymosi kr\u016bvis, vieni\u0161umo jausmas klas\u0117je, paty\u010dios ar mokymosi sunkumai, kuri\u0173 vaikas pats dar nemoka \u012fvardyti. Kartais \u201enenoriu\u201c rei\u0161kia ir baim\u0119 suklysti arba nepateisinti savo ar suaugusi\u0173j\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173.<\/p><p><strong>Kitas \u017eingsnis \u2013 konkret\u016bs sprendimai<\/strong><\/p><p>I\u0161siai\u0161kinus, kas vaik\u0105 slegia, lengviau ie\u0161koti pagalbos b\u016bd\u0173. Kartais pakanka ai\u0161kesn\u0117s dienos strukt\u016bros, ma\u017eesni\u0173 ir realisti\u0161kesni\u0173 l\u016bkes\u010di\u0173, papildomo d\u0117mesio ruo\u0161iant pamokas. Kitais atvejais gali b\u016bti reikalingas pokalbis su mokytoju ar mokyklos psichologu.<\/p><p>Jei \u012ftariamos paty\u010dios, svarbu nedelsti \u2013 kreiptis \u012f klas\u0117s aukl\u0117toj\u0105, mokyklos administracij\u0105, ie\u0161koti mediacijos galimybi\u0173. Vaikas netur\u0117t\u0173 likti vienas su tuo, kas j\u012f \u017eeid\u017eia.<\/p><p>Vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117ja atkreipia d\u0117mes\u012f, kad \u0161iandien daugelis vaik\u0173 patiria spaudim\u0105 pasiekti daugiau \u2013 tiek mokykloje, tiek u\u017eklasin\u0117se veiklose. Tod\u0117l svarbu ai\u0161kiai parodyti, kad vaiko vert\u0117 nepriklauso vien nuo pa\u017eymi\u0173 ar rezultat\u0173. Saugumo ir pri\u0117mimo jausmas yra pagrindas, be kurio mokymasis tampa gerokai sunkesnis.<\/p><p>\u201eSvarbu steb\u0117ti poky\u010dius. Jei vaikas, anks\u010diau noriai \u0117j\u0119s \u012f mokykl\u0105, staiga pradeda vengti pamok\u0173, sk\u0173stis pilvo ar galvos skausmais, u\u017esisklend\u017eia \u2013 tai gali b\u016bti \u017eenklas, kad jam reikia pagalbos\u201c, \u2013 pa\u017eymi R. Karpovien\u0117.<\/p><p><strong><em>Kilus klausimams, kvie\u010diame \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@vaikoteisiuTV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Vaiko teisi\u0173 TV<\/a>&nbsp;arba konsultuotis su vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117jais skambinant nemokamu tel. 0\u202f800 10\u202f800, taip pat galima ra\u0161yti \u017einut\u0119 interneto svetain\u0117je&nbsp;vaikoteises.lrv.lt&nbsp;esan\u010diame pokalbi\u0173 laukelyje. Prane\u0161ti apie vaiko teisi\u0173 pa\u017eeidim\u0105 galima artimiausiame vaiko teisi\u0173 apsaugos skyriuje, u\u017epildant form\u0105 Tarnybos interneto svetain\u0117je arba skambinant Skubiosios pagalbos tarnyb\u0173 ry\u0161io numeriu 112.<\/em><\/strong><strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vaiko \u017eod\u017eiai \u201enenoriu mokytis\u201c ar \u201enenoriu eiti \u012f mokykl\u0105\u201c suaugusiesiems gali nuskamb\u0117ti kaip rib\u0173 tikrinimas ar mai\u0161tas. Ta\u010diau vaiko teisi\u0173 gyn\u0117jai ragina neskub\u0117ti daryti i\u0161vad\u0173 \u2013 u\u017e tokio pasakymo gali&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":135642,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,111],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-135641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualijos","category-tavo-vaikas","pmpro-has-access"],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-scaled.jpg",2560,1707,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-300x200.jpg",300,200,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-768x512.jpg",768,512,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-1536x1024.jpg",1536,1024,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-2048x1365.jpg",2048,1365,true],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-600x400.jpg",600,400,true],"visualnews_post_thumb":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-600x400.jpg",600,400,true],"woocommerce_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"woocommerce_single":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-600x400.jpg",600,400,true],"woocommerce_gallery_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-100x100.jpg",100,100,true]},"author_info":{"info":["Gidas"]},"category_info":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/category\/aktualijos\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Aktualijos<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/category\/kitos-temos\/tavo-vaikas\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Tavo vaikas<\/a>","tag_info":"Tavo vaikas","comment_count":"0","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/jb1WF2amA1s-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/135641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=135641"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/135641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":135643,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/135641\/revisions\/135643"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/135642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=135641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=135641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=135641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}