{"id":106363,"date":"2008-01-15T09:27:29","date_gmt":"2008-01-15T07:27:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.17047165566933.sritis.lt\/index.php\/2008\/01\/15\/emigracijos-aukos-vaikai\/"},"modified":"2008-01-15T09:27:29","modified_gmt":"2008-01-15T07:27:29","slug":"emigracijos-aukos-vaikai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/2008\/01\/15\/emigracijos-aukos-vaikai\/","title":{"rendered":"Emigracijos aukos \u2013 vaikai"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lietuvoje vis daugiau vaik\u0173 netenka t\u0117v\u0173 d\u0117mesio bei meil\u0117s. D\u0117l nelaimi\u0173 ir did\u017eiul\u0117s emigracijos lik\u0119 vieni, jie galiausiai tampa nesuvaldomi, svetimi ir pavojingi. Beveik kas antra \u0161eima Lietuvoje i\u0161siskyrusi. Lietuvai\u010diai i\u0161va\u017eiuoja \u012f u\u017esien\u012f ie\u0161koti geresnio gyvenimo, o vaikai paliekami seneliams ar kitiems giminai\u010diams. \u012e u\u017esien\u012f i\u0161va\u017eiuoja jauni \u017emon\u0117s, turintys ma\u017e\u0173 vaik\u0173. Kadangi jiems \u012fsitvirtinti ten nelengva, o kai kurie i\u0161vyksta nelegaliai, ma\u017eieji jiems sukelt\u0173 tik problem\u0173. Tod\u0117l daugelis visai dar ma\u017eus vaikus palieka auginti seneliams. Po kiek laiko vaikai net neatpa\u017e\u012fsta savo t\u0117v\u0173, auga kaip na\u0161lai\u010diai.<br \/>\n<br \/>Pasteb\u0117ta, kad be t\u0117v\u0173 lik\u0119 vaikai pirmiausia pradeda nesimokyti, paskui susideda su blogais draugais arba tampa labai u\u017edari. Prad\u0117jus ie\u0161koti prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173, kod\u0117l staiga i\u0161kilo pa\u017eangumo ir elgesio problem\u0173, neretai paai\u0161k\u0117ja, kad mokinio t\u0117v\u0173 neb\u0117ra Lietuvoje. \u0160eim\u0173 dram\u0173 pasekm\u0117s \u2013 vaik\u0173 agresija, paaugli\u0173 nusikalstamumas, jaunimo girtavimas. Bet meil\u0117s ir r\u016bpes\u010dio savo vaikui nei\u0161reikalaus n\u0117 viena institucija ar tarnyba. Siun\u010diami i\u0161 u\u017esienio t\u0117v\u0173 pinigai n\u0117 trupu\u010dio ne\u0161ildo vaiko \u0161irdies. Didel\u0117 tikimyb\u0117, kad matydami, kaip bla\u0161kosi j\u0173 t\u0117vai, \u0161ie vaikai u\u017eaug\u0119 sunkiai u\u017emegs ilgalaikius santykius, bus nestabil\u016bs ne tik asmeniniame gyvenime, bet ir darbe.<br \/>\n<br \/>T\u0117vai sunkiai i\u0161gyvena i\u0161siskyrim\u0105 su savo vaikais, bet vis tiek pasirenka didesn\u012f atlyginim\u0105, o ne \u0161eim\u0105. Juridi\u0161kai beglobiai vaikai palikti \u017eiauriai realybei. J\u0173 interesus turintys ginti pedagogai, vaiko teisi\u0173 apsaugos darbuotojai netikruosius na\u0161lai\u010dius pastebi tik jau i\u0161kilus problemoms.<br \/>\n<br \/>Bent kiek daugiau emigrant\u0173 at\u017ealomis turi pasir\u016bpinti valstyb\u0117. Specialios programos, paramos grup\u0117s b\u016btinos ne tik \u201epamestiems\u201c vaikams, bet ir tiems \u017emon\u0117ms, kuriems tenka pri\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti nepilname\u010dius t\u0117vams i\u0161vykus. Panaudokime tam \u012f u\u017esien\u012f dar nepab\u0117gusius socialinius darbuotojus, ugdymo, psichologijos specialistus, kad ir vieni, ir kiti jaust\u0173si bent kiek reikalingi savo valstybei.<\/p>\n<p>Vaida GIRDIJAUSKIEN\u0116<br \/>\n<br \/>Vilniaus pedagoginio universiteto socialin\u0117s pedagogikos specialyb\u0117s student\u0117<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lietuvoje vis daugiau vaik\u0173 netenka t\u0117v\u0173 d\u0117mesio bei meil\u0117s. D\u0117l nelaimi\u0173 ir did\u017eiul\u0117s emigracijos lik\u0119 vieni, jie galiausiai tampa nesuvaldomi, svetimi ir pavojingi. Beveik kas antra \u0161eima Lietuvoje i\u0161siskyrusi. 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