{"id":102641,"date":"2007-03-27T08:56:10","date_gmt":"2007-03-27T05:56:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.17047165566933.sritis.lt\/index.php\/2007\/03\/27\/net-ir-tukstanciai-sunkumu-nesugriauna-tvirtu-pamatu\/"},"modified":"2007-03-27T08:56:10","modified_gmt":"2007-03-27T05:56:10","slug":"net-ir-tukstanciai-sunkumu-nesugriauna-tvirtu-pamatu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/2007\/03\/27\/net-ir-tukstanciai-sunkumu-nesugriauna-tvirtu-pamatu\/","title":{"rendered":"Net ir t\u016bkstan\u010diai sunkum\u0173 nesugriauna tvirt\u0173 pamat\u0173"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Birut\u0117 NEN\u0116NIEN\u0116<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Janinos ir Raimondo Ne\u0161ukai\u010di\u0173 biografija labai paprasta: augo kaimynyst\u0117je, kartu \u017eaid\u0117, mok\u0117si vienoje klas\u0117je, baig\u0117 t\u0105 pa\u010di\u0105 \u017daliosios pagrindin\u0119 mokykl\u0105, \u012fgijo prakti\u0161kas \u2013 kep\u0117jos ir staliaus dailid\u0117s \u2013 profesijas, po metus trukusios kar\u0161tesn\u0117s draugyst\u0117s susituok\u0117. Ir jau dvide\u0161imt met\u0173 kartu gyvena \u017daliojoje, septynerius metus abu dirba \u017daliosios Vinco \u017demai\u010dio pagrindin\u0117je mokykloje: ji \u2013 valgykloje, jis \u2013 bud\u0117toju.<br \/>\n<br \/>\u2013 Mes esame paprasti \u017emon\u0117s ir gyvename paprastai, argi galime b\u016bti kam nors \u012fdom\u016bs? \u2013 pla\u010diai \u0161ypsodamasi klaus\u0117 Janina.<br \/>\n<br \/>Tokiomis pat atviromis, ka\u017ekaip nepaprastai \u0161vie\u010dian\u010diomis, kaip ir \u017emonos, akimis ma\u017eum\u0117l\u0119 sutrik\u0119s pritar\u0117 jai Raimondas.<br \/>\n<br \/>Sutuoktiniai gyvena \u016bki\u0161kai. Janina \u2013 i\u0161radinga \u0161eiminink\u0117, i\u0161mokusi ir \u012fpratusi taupyti, prie kuklaus \u0161eimos biud\u017eeto prisiduria pasi\u016bdama ar pataisydama drabu\u017e\u012f. \u0160ito amato i\u0161moko, kaip ji sako, i\u0161 reikalo. Kasdienin\u0117 b\u016btis paskatina ie\u0161koti ir kitoki\u0173 u\u017edarbio bei taupymo form\u0173. Pavyzd\u017eiui, Raimondas, kaip stalius, turi \u201egeras rankas\u201c, tod\u0117l nam\u0173 remontams kviestis darbinink\u0173 nereikia. Vienam kitam papra\u0161iusiam \u017emogui ir pats k\u0105 nors sumeistrauja. Ka\u017ekada band\u0117 imtis verslo, bet \u201ema\u017eiems\u201c verslininkams, o ypa\u010d kaime, jis pasirod\u0117 nepelningas. \u201eIr ko tik mes neprigalvojame \u2013 bandome kepti \u0161ako\u010dius, \u012fsiveis\u0117me bi\u010di\u0173\u201c, \u2013 v\u0117l besi\u0161ypsodama \u0161eimos socialin\u0119 pad\u0117t\u012f pie\u0161\u0117 Janina.<br \/>\n<br \/>Ko reikia, kad gra\u017eiai sugyventum ir, kaip Raimondas prisipa\u017eino, \u017emonai g\u0117l\u0119 atne\u0161tum ne vien per \u0160v. Valentino dien\u0105? Sutuoktiniai savo \u0161eimos gyvenimo nedailindami prisipa\u017eino, jog per dvide\u0161imt\u012f met\u0173 b\u016bta ir krizi\u0173, ir nesusipratim\u0173 \u2013 kaip ir kiekvienoje \u0161eimoje. Ta\u010diau abu seniai suvok\u0117, jog tobulo vyro ar tobulos moters n\u0117ra. Kart\u0105 sutar\u0119 gyventi drauge, ne\u012fsileid\u017eia ilgam pyk\u010dio \u2013 patyli arba i\u0161sisako, i\u0161silieja. \u201ePadeda ir tik\u0117jimas\u201c, \u2013 pasidalij\u0119 jiems suprantamais \u017evilgsniais u\u017etikrino sutuoktiniai.<br \/>\n<br \/>D\u0117l vaik\u0173 \u2013 s\u016bnaus Gintaro ir dukros Lauros \u2013 niekada nereik\u0117jo raudonuoti. Dabar sutuoktiniai tik droviai nutyli, kad Laura gal per anksti suk\u016br\u0117 savo \u0161eim\u0105. Jaun\u0117lis Gintaras \u2013 dvyliktokas. Vaikinas imlus mokslams, tod\u0117l t\u0117vai tikisi, kad sugeb\u0117s j\u012f i\u0161leisti toliau. \u201eJis jau\u010dia pareig\u0105 mokytis\u201c, \u2013 pasid\u017eiaug\u0117 t\u0117tis.<br \/>\n<br \/>I\u0161sikalbame, jog pareigos jausmas \u012faug\u0119s nuo ma\u017eens. Berniukui labai nor\u0117josi patarnauti mi\u0161ioms parapijos ba\u017eny\u010dioje. Kai pasipra\u0161\u0117 ma\u017eiukas, taip ir pasiliko. Ir dabar sekmadieniais patarnauja kunigui, skaito \u0160v. Ra\u0161to skaitinius. Gintaras noriai dalyvauja kataliki\u0161ko jaunimo renginiuose. Abu su Laura \u2013 aktyv\u016bs jaunieji \u0161auliai.<br \/>\n<br \/>\u2013 I\u0161 kur toks polinkis?\u2013 klausiau t\u0117v\u0173. \u201eM\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimoje vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 tai savaime suprantamas dalykas. Mes i\u0161augome religingose \u0161eimose, vaikus nuo ma\u017eens pripratinome prie ba\u017eny\u010dios. Net ne\u012fsivaizduojame kitaip \u2013 visi kartu sekmadieniais dalyvaujame mi\u0161iose, kartu b\u016bname atlaiduose, kitose \u0161vent\u0117se\u201c, \u2013 atsak\u0117 t\u0117vai.<br \/>\n<br \/>Pasirodo, jog visa Ne\u0161ukai\u010di\u0173 \u0161eima turi \u012fsipareigojim\u0105, sudar\u0119 sutart\u012f tik su savo s\u0105\u017eine \u2013 tvarkyti ir puo\u0161ti \u017daliosios ba\u017eny\u010di\u0105 bei jos aplink\u0105.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Birut\u0117 NEN\u0116NIEN\u0116 Janinos ir Raimondo Ne\u0161ukai\u010di\u0173 biografija labai paprasta: augo kaimynyst\u0117je, kartu \u017eaid\u0117, mok\u0117si vienoje klas\u0117je, baig\u0117 t\u0105 pa\u010di\u0105 \u017daliosios pagrindin\u0119 mokykl\u0105, \u012fgijo prakti\u0161kas \u2013 kep\u0117jos ir staliaus dailid\u0117s \u2013&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":102642,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"Laisv\u0105 valand\u0117l\u0119 Raimondas u\u017esuka \u017evilgtel\u0117ti, kaip darbe sekasi Janinai. \/ Autor\u0117s nuotr.","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","pmpro-has-access"],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610-300x225.jpg",300,225,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"large":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"visualnews_post_thumb":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"woocommerce_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"woocommerce_single":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg",420,315,false],"woocommerce_gallery_thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610-100x100.jpg",100,100,true]},"author_info":{"info":["admin"]},"category_info":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/category\/uncategorized\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Be kategorijos<\/a>","tag_info":"Be kategorijos","comment_count":"0","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/20070327085610.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102641\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.santaka.info\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}